Thursday, December 8, 2011

Dec. 7th.. not 1941

when Garrett came home from school today i asked him if they talked about what "day" it is today. after we got passed the fact that the Did calendar... he understood i was talking about a "special" day.
"No. Ms Jessica didn't mention it. You know, she didn't have the little holiday tag on the calendar either.. i wonder why. Maybe she didn't know" (please take no offense to this Jessica. He frequently thinks that adults really do not know common things and he blames it on our bad teachers).

So we talked about why today is an important day to remember. I got out our Usborne book,
"the world wars" (with internet links to tons of info!) and looked up Pearl Harbor.
We read the section on it... I learning right along with him and having trouble answering some of his questions about why we were called the Allies... And who the Axis was. And.. why countries are called "her/she".

So let's be honest (as i have to admit since my sister may call me out on it!)... i think this is only the 2nd year that i actually know why today's date is important. not because i never heard of pearl harbor, i knew "generally" what happened. but the date certainly did not stick. nor did the significance. (on a side note, my sister has been quizzing me for years about this as she finds history interesting... and i just could never get it straight.. the date & it's not the same as d-day.) I swear i did well in American History... but for the life of me I can't remember even being IN that class!

I do not want my kids to be like me in that respect.

we are in fact, a military family. that has really shaped me as an adult into wanting to know and respect history. so basically i learn right along side Garrett who finds it fascinating. Not only that, but i have an intimate understanding of the sacrifices made by the brave men and women and their families. I think back and remember about choking when my mom suggested going to Washington DC, Gettysburg, Thomas Jefferson's home... (the list goes on) for vacation. The first time i remember feeling any allegiance really is during Desert Storm. I remember realizing that it was a big deal. people were dying. and of course.. the 7th grade spring choir show was dedicated to the armed forces. we sang all the branches' songs. and recently garrett's choior show for Veteran's day did just that...


I'm hoping to instil the importance of history and the respect for our country.
tonight we listened to FDR's speech after Pearl Harbor .... i don't think i ever heard it!


FDR speech
...along with many radio clips from KDKA (Pittsburgh!) announcing the news and reports from Hawaii. It is such a stark difference from what we have today, where we expect up to the minute reports. funny, it was probably more accurate then.

it was a good lesson. so the question i have is why isn't it a "tag" on the calendar charts?? lol!Link

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

finished 2 pretty cool wreaths


can you guess what these wreaths are made out of???

Plastic Table Cloths!!

total cost.. under 10. :)



all you do is cut strips of the table cloth & tie them on to a wire wreath frame.
i used a frame that had 4 circles to it. i ended up using only the 1st and 3rd. was going to do the
4th too to make it really full... but...it takes a long time and frankly i'm ready to get to
decorating my house. i think they still look great!

i'm sad to give both away :( kidding. but i want to make one for us too.. time needs to slow!

Sunday, December 4, 2011

sharing thanksgiving crafts


Some crafty Thanksgiving items.....


a Thanksgiving centerpiece for our family like hosts
it looked pretty when lit!






Garrett made this :)











Addie being crafty with colors and glitter! (lots of glitter.)

Our Thankful tree.... i really love this tradition.








Addie and Lucas... birthdays are days apart and Man! can you tell!
they seem to be the male/female versions of each other. they have so much fun together! they are just Crazy together! They decorated this gingerbread house together after Thanksgiving dinner. A single person could have designed their house because it was so similar on each side... LOTS of candy which they Dove into!! ............ Garrett and Kaden designed their house very organized with very straight lines.... can
you tell they are oldest kids??









Not crafty.. but super cute boy !

Friday, December 2, 2011

a wedding show

this year for our anniversary we had a sick Garrett. going to reno for a dinner out wasn't really an option. if you do not know, Fernley, NV is a small town. small in that it has NO where to eat aside from fast food, casinos, and a decent family owned taco place. still, i wasn't up for cooking so we got pizza from our favorite pizza place (it's freshly made & you take it home to cook.. so technically i did cook.) Garrett, who started feeling a little more like himself in the afternoon, had gone into planning mode with Addie. They decided they were going to do a Wedding Show for our anniversary after dinner. They also decided we needed cookies for dessert (ok, i'm in!)

the romantic table was set.
Matt supplied the beautiful flowers.
Garrett supplied the decor... love the helmets.




We could barley finish our pizza before the entertainment was set to begin. In fact, Addison told us we had to stop eating and watch the wedding show and then we could go back to dinner. Girl on a mission.


Garrett says "This is what happened 9 years ago when you got married." "ching ching ching" ("those are church bells")

Addison walks down the pillow isle. notice her yellow flower bouquet.


addie... will you marry me???
"yeah. can i see the ring??"





"Yay!"




An adorable wedding show guest.




really, it doesn't get better than this.
today.. is love.

9 years

9 years we've been married! kind of hard to believe. so much about our marriage has shaped me and changed me. i am not the girl i was 9 years ago. for the better i believe.
.... i would have never guessed that I would be able to say that
i've lived in 4 states and 6 houses
i've traveled to hawaii, across the country, and to Japan!
i've become flexible... i willow if you will (as JW used to say in grad school when i was so much more so an Oak).
i've become a Griffin in the "laid back, 'on time' is an option, less serious than i ever was" kind of way
i've learned (learning) to be independent. to make it through 8 months with only God sustaining me.
i've learned that there are not "wife or husband" duties when he is deployed. i've handled some
exceptional situations.. and i can say i'm proud of me! also, i'm happy to hand back over those "husband duties" :)
i've started the journey of being a wife.
i've started the journey of being a mommy.

so i'm not the same girl that said "i do" 9 years ago. i like me better each day because of my wonderful husband... i love our little life.